Very insightful article. I have experienced this phenomenon often.
I live abroad so the expectation of family and friends back home can easily be outdated by years.
On a recent visit, I kept activities, including writing, to myself which is a little sad, frankly.
The perspective of “not misunderstanding back” is helpful.
Thanks for posting!
P.S. I have used up my clap quota today — otherwise I would give a standing ovation!